(ii) Whether the High Court and Court of Appeal properly applied the decisions issued by the Family Court in the United Kingdom in arriving at their determination.
[45]The appellant was emphatic that the superior courts deferred to the English Court’s judgment when they applied its decision and orders in the instant matter. She contended that the trial court proceeded on the premise that the English Court is superior to the High Court which, she argues, cannot be. She maintained that the High Court was bound by its determination and orders on parental responsibility. She urged that the superior courts could not abandon their responsibility to another foreign court. The 1st respondent on the other hand argued that the minor was residing in the United Kingdom all along thus it was proper for the English Courts to make its judgment which was the basis of the trial court finding that the parental agreement was no longer reflective of the child’s legal or factual position.
[46]The question that arises is whether the superior courts deferred to the English Court by disregarding Kenyan Law as well as a High Court order that was in force while determining the matter that was before them. In other words, were the superior courts bound by the English Court judgment?
[47]At the High Court, the learned judge delivered himself as follows:“(34)I reiterate that the child was heard by the Family Court in London. He was categorical that he had been physically and emotionally abused by the petitioner, and did not want any contact with her. I find that in particular circumstances of this case, the best interests of the child will be served by the parties obeying the orders that were granted by the Family Court in London in the United Kingdom on May 11, 2017. These orders, I find, were in line with the protection afforded to a Kenyan child under the Constitution, the Children Act and the international instruments that Kenya is party to.”
48.The learned judges of the Court of Appeal in determining the appeal before them held as follows;“We further observe that based on the Cafcass Family Court report, the United Kingdom High Court made the minor a ward of the court, “until his 18th birthday or until further order to the contrary”. The court further held that the parental responsibility agreement was not reflective of the child’s current legal and factual position. The court directed that the appellant should not have direct contact with the minor. And it is these findings that largely informed the learned Judge’s conclusions that the appellant’s petition was unmeritorious.With respect, we concur with and affirm the learned Judge’s conclusions as being based on the evidence availed and reflective of a proper exercise of discretion. It is noteworthy that fundamental changes have occurred in the lives of the parties and the minor since the recording of the parental responsibility agreement dated 2008, including the fact that the parties and the minor are no longer resident in Kenya. The assault accusation made by the appellant, an which the United Kingdom High Court found true, is especially critical in this matter and not one to be taken lightly.’ (emphasis ours)”
[49]It is evident that the determinations made by the learned judges of the superior courts relied on the findings by the English Court. However, the English Court did not consider the significance of the PRA and the consequences of its violation.
[50]We have also considered the provisions of the Evidence Act, chapter 80, Laws of Kenya on matters which the court can take judicial notice of and judgments from foreign courts do not fall within the purview of the issues for consideration on judicial notice.
[51]We are therefore constrained to fault the learned judges of the Court of Appeal in placing credence on the findings of the family court in English Court which largely disregarded the PRA; an agreement that could not be violated without consequence. In addition, the PRA, a binding agreement between both the appellant and the 1st respondent could only be terminated by the High Court.
(iv) Whether parental rights and responsibilities could be extinguished in this case.
[61]It was the appellant’s contention that the rights of a child to parental care are innate and cannot be extinguished. She urged that the character and conduct of a parent are immaterial and do not extinguish parental rights unless the parent has been proven not desirous of acting in the best interest of the child. The 1st respondent on his part urged us to find that the Appellate Court assessed the evidence before it and made a finding that it would not be in the best interest of the minor to be left in the care of a parent who causes him physical and mental harm. The Constitution guides us on the rights of children.
[62]Article 53 of the Constitution provides that:53.Children1)Every child has the right—a)to a name and nationality from birth;b)to free and compulsory basic education;c)to basic nutrition, shelter and health care;d)to be protected from abuse, neglect, harmful cultural practices, all forms of violence, inhuman treatment and punishment, and hazardous or exploitative labour;e)to parental care and protection, which includes equal responsibility of the mother and father to provide for the child, whether they are married to each other or not; andf)not to be detained, except as a measure of last resort, and when detained, to be held—ifor the shortest appropriate period of time; andii.separate from adults and in conditions that take account of the child’s sex and age.(2)A child’s best interests are of paramount importance in every matter concerning the child.
[63]This Constitutional provision has been thoroughly elucidated by the superior courts. For instance, in FSL v FNK, Civil Appeal no E060 of 2021 [2022] eKLR Thande, J observed:“
12.In the present matter which relates to a child of the parties, the interests of the child supersede those of the parties and must at all times be upheld. In this regard, the court is guided by the provisions of the Constitution of Kenya, 2010 and of the Children Act which require the court to give paramount importance to the best interests of the child. Article 53(2) of the Constitution provides:“A child’s best interests are of paramount importance in every matter concerning the child.The Children Act on the other hand provides at section 4(3) that:“In all actions concerning children, whether undertaken by public or private social welfare institutions, courts of law, administrative authorities or legislative bodies, the best interests of the child shall be a primary consideration.”
[64]The Children Act (repealed) provided for parental responsibility in section 23 as:
23.Definition of parental responsibility(1)In this Act, “parental responsibility” means all the duties, rights, powers, responsibilities and authority which by law a parent of a child has in relation to the child and the child’s property in a manner consistent with the evolving capacities of the child.
65.Section 23 (c) of the repealed Act enumerated these rights as follows:(c)the right to—(i)give parental guidance in religious, moral, social, cultural and other values;(ii)determine the name of the child;(iii)appoint a guardian in respect of the child;(iv)receive, recover, administer and otherwise deal with the property of the child for the benefit and in the best interests of the child;(v)arrange or restrict the emigration of the child from Kenya;(vi)upon the death of the child, to arrange for the burial or cremation of the child.
[66]The children’s rights legal regime (the Constitution, Children Act (repealed), CRC, and the African Charter on the Rights and Welfare of the Child) emphasizes the centrality of the best interest of the child. The best interest of the child is determined by the circumstances of the case as they specifically relate to the child. This comprises the principles that prime the child’s right to survival, protection, participation, and development above other considerations and includes the rights contemplated under article 53 (1) of the Constitution. As such, the focus must be on the child and what is best for him/her.
[67]In addition, there is no hierarchy in the children’s rights provided for under the Constitution. In other words, all the rights provided under article 53 are in the child’s best interest. The ‘best interests’ concept is further strengthened by being the ‘paramount’ consideration. This means that the best interests of the child are to be the determining factor when making a decision on the child. It is against this aspect that parental rights ought to be balanced. This is also taking into consideration that no right should be compromised by a negative interpretation of a child’s best interest.
[68]In this context, the record does not provide any cogent evidence of the English Court balancing between parental rights and the best interest of the child. It is evident from the record that the 1st respondent lived in Tanzania while the child lived in York, in boarding school. The child visited the 1st respondent in Tanzania for short periods of time. The English Court (Justice Heaton) recorded that the appellant accepted that she had at least on one occasion hit her son causing him physical harm, and the child made allegations that the appellant repeatedly hit him. It was recorded that a warrant of arrest was issued for her arrest.
[69]It is also on record that neither the English Court nor the parties considered it necessary to determine each of the allegations made by the child or the 1st respondent the court being satisfied that the mother had physically harmed the child. This led to the finding that the appellant was an unfit mother. However, this leaves us in the dark because we cannot tell which legal standards were applied to arrive at this conclusion particularly because the superior courts did not test this evidence and no warrant of arrest is in the record, as evidence.
[70]In addition, Mrs Justice Parker in her judgment on May 11, 2017, at paragraph 19 stated:“he has suffered harm from the unstable relationship which he has had with his mother. I am unable to form a view precisely what happened between them to lead to the intervention of the police and social services, but I do know that the mother has given different accounts as to physical chastisement of F and I also know that his relationship with his mother has completely broken down.”She noted that the appellant objected to the minor being a ward of the court but nonetheless the English court maintained the minor as its ward. Furthermore, the English Court ordered that the child would not have any direct contact with the appellant unless agreed by the father in writing or ordered by the court. It also ordered that the child would only have indirect contact with the appellant via social media initiated by the child and not the mother and by way of letters, cards, or gifts sent to the child via her maternal aunt. These were the findings relied on wholly by our superior courts.
[71]We note from the record that the appellant produced as part of her testimony two medical reports on the child which revealed that there was no indication of any form of abuse against the child. One of these is dated November 28, 2014 by a pediatrician in Kenya who had attended to the child’s medical needs since the year 2013. The other is dated November 18, 2014 by a pediatrician in the United Kingdom. Both reports stated that there was no evidence of physical abuse on the child.
[72]Although the English Courts did not find it necessary to determine each of the allegations made by the child, the superior courts erred by not considering and testing the evidence tendered before them by the appellant on the allegations of abuse. We are unconvinced that the appellant received a fair hearing. Nothing on the record indicates whether the appellant was heard at all on this issue. Further, nothing is indicative of whether the English or our courts considered the belt- beating discipline: excessive or otherwise. It remained unproven whether the appellant posed a continuous danger to the child.
[73]We also note from the record that there is an email dated July 21, 2013 from the 1st respondent expressing gratitude to the appellant for her wonderful mothering skills in the following terms:“thank you for being a great mom to him and all the hard work you put is clear for all to see, he is bright, caring, responsible and a loving child and credit goes to you.”
[74]Accordingly, we do not find sufficient cogent evidence on record to lead to the finding that the appellant is an unfit mother liable to zero direct contact with the child. As such, the Appellate court erred in endorsing the High Court decision which purported to extinguish the appellant’s parental rights and responsibilities.
[75]We cannot endorse, therefore, with a clean conscience the decisions of the superior courts which embraced the decisions of the English Courts because we are of the view that the judges did not consider the totality of the circumstances of this case in the following ways. Firstly, the English Courts declared that the child was habitually resident in England and Wales while ignoring that he was first and foremost a Kenyan national with attendant rights. In other words, he was deprived of a country of his own and of its protection and support socially and culturally. Furthermore, the minor was made a ward of an alien court when he is a Kenyan national. In adopting these findings, the Appellate Court did not consider that this was in contravention of the rights enshrined in article 53(1) (a) as outlined in earlier parts of this judgment and the CRC. The CRC provides in articles 7 & 8:“Article 71.The child shall be registered immediately after birth and shall have the right from birth to a name, the right to acquire a nationality and as far as possible, the right to know and be cared for by his or her parents.Article 8
1.States parties undertake to respect the right of the child to preserve his or her identity, including nationality, name and family relations as recognized by law without unlawful interference.”
[76]We cannot help but find that the child’s constitutional rights to nationality, parental care, and responsibility which includes equal responsibility of the mother and father to provide for the child whether they are married to each other or not have been infringed. This finding is also in light of the English Court’s orders that the 1st respondent had care and control of the child. This court also ordered that the mother was to have no direct contact with the child. This in effect meant that the father could determine every aspect of the child’s life: where he went to school, lived, or holidayed.
[77]The same courts determined that child could ably articulate himself ‘on the degree of integration in a social and family environment’ in other words, how he saw his connections, social relationships, and support system. It is ironic because it goes without saying, that his perspective would largely be in the lens of the 1st respondent. He had been deprived of direct contact with his other parent, so even though his views and desires were heard, he could not have had a balanced assessment of the situation.
[78]At this juncture, we must point out that the preamble to the CRC states that the family is the fundamental unit of society and the natural environment for the growth and well-being of its members, particularly children. Article 9 of the Convention further stipulates that:“1. States parties shall ensure that a child shall not be separated from his or her parents against their will, except when competent authorities subject to judicial review determine, in accordance with applicable law and procedures, that such separation is necessary for the best interests of the child. Such determination may be necessary in a particular case such as one involving abuse or neglect of the child by the parents, or one where the parents are living separately and a decision must be made as to the child's place of residence.
2.In any proceedings pursuant to paragraph 1 of the present article, all interested parties shall be given an opportunity to participate in the proceedings and make their views known.
3.States Parties shall respect the right of the child who is separated from one or both parents to maintain personal relations and direct contact with both parents on a regular basis, except if it is contrary to the child's best interests.”
[79]The Children Act (repealed) invoked during the time of this dispute provided in section 6 (1) in mandatory terms that a child has a right to live with and to be cared for by his parents. Section 6(2) provided:“Subject to subsection (1), where the court or the Director determines in accordance with the law that it is in the best interests of the child to separate him from his parent, the best alternative care available shall be provided for the child.”
[80]The Act also provided in section 24 (1) that:(1)Where a child’s father and mother were married to each other at the time of his birth, they shall have parental responsibility for the child and neither the father nor the mother of the child shall have a superior right or claim against the other in exercise of such parental responsibility
[81]Section 24(5) on parental responsibility stated “a person who has parental responsibility for a child at any time shall not cease to have that responsibility for the child.” This means parental responsibility is a mandatory ongoing obligation. Parental responsibility attaches to the right of the child as it is the parent who has the responsibility to ensure that the needs of the child are catered for.
[82]In addition, it is not in the interest of justice to deny the child access to his mother. We are cognizant of article 19 of The African Charter on The Rights and Welfare of The Child which stipulates that: “every child is entitled to parental care and protection and shall wherever possible reside with his or her parents.”
[83]It is evident from the foregoing provisions that the child has a right to parental care and it is in the best interest of the child that he is brought up and cared for by his or her parent. This right can only be denied if it is proved with cogent evidence and valid grounds that a parent is not suitable or is incapable of taking care of the child. Ultimately, therefore, a child needs both of their parents which is their right, especially where a parent’s incapacity has not been proven as we have found in this case.
[84]It is a known fact that the society in which children grow up shapes who they are. Having both a mother and father involved in a child’s life can provide significant social, psychological, and health benefits. In addition, the stability of having a relationship with both parents can provide security and greater opportunities for children to find their own paths to success. Accordingly, even if circumstances may warrant limited access to a parent, a court should order supervised access. This court has the constitutional obligation to ensure that the child has access to parental care and protection as enshrined in the Constitution.
[85]The committee on the CRC[General comment No 14 [2013] on the right of the child to have his or her best interests taken as a primary consideration] has observed at clause 11 that ‘the best interests of the child is a dynamic concept that encompasses various issues which are continuously evolving.’ Thus, the concept of the child’s best interest is flexible and adaptable. It should be adapted and defined on an individual basis, according to the specific situation of the child concerned considering their personal context, situation and needs.
[86]The 1st respondent contended that parental rights do not trump the best interests of the child. That is correct. However, parental rights cannot be ignored if they are in the best interests of the child. This is because the concept of the child’s best interests is aimed at ensuring both the full and effective enjoyment of all the children’s rights recognized in the Constitution, the Children Act, the CRC, and the African Charter on The Rights and Welfare of The Child. These are all geared towards the holistic development of the child.
[87]Courts, therefore, while making a decision that will impact the child are mandated to consider all circumstances affecting the child. As such, we are of the view that the following guidelines are necessary and ought to be considered when balancing a child’s best interests and parental rights and responsibility:1.The existence of a PRA between the parties.2.The past performance of each parent.3.Each parent’s presence including his or her ability to guide the child and provide for the child's overall well-being.4.The ascertainable wishes of a child who is capable of giving / expressing his /her opinion.5.The financial status of each parent.6.The individual needs of each child.7.The quality of the available home environment.8.Need to preserve personal relations and direct contact with the child by both parents unless it is not in the best interests of the child in which case supervised access to the child must be granted.9.Need to ensure that children are not placed in alternative care unnecessarily.10.The mental health of the parents and11.The totality of the circumstances.
[88]We need to emphasize that it is never in the best interest of a child when the parents are engaged in a protracted court battle. Court battles relating to children are more often than not very selfish in nature and it is easy to overlook the psychological and mental harm done to the child in the process. In the instant matter, we note that the appellant has not had direct contact with the minor since Justice Heaton’s orders of August 7, 2015. In the circumstances of this case, as already demonstrated, this is in contravention of our legal regime on the rights of the child. However, we are also alive to the fact that the child turned eighteen (18) on February 12, 2022. As such, the child is at liberty to choose whom to live with and whether or not he wants the see the appellant.